Jewish Funeral Traditions & Customs

The Jewish tradition is rich in wisdom.  At Brighton Memorial Chapel, we try to guide and gently assist the families we serve through the process necessary for funeral and burial.  With this in mind, we wish to explain some of the customs, ceremonies and practical realities of dealing with death and mourning.  We believe that a family that is informed and prepared can best handle their grief and loss. This outline is not intended to be all inclusive, but should instead create an open family dialogue that would encourage thoughtful advanced planning.  

These separate pages contain information and definitions of common Jewish traditions and terms.  Some of the traditions listed may fall under the Orthodox or traditional heading.  Over time, the Conservative and Reform movements have modified some of these traditions.  At Brighton Memorial Chapel, we are able to cater to your family’s needs.  In certain instances, the rabbi, venue of the service or burial plot a family chooses will determine certain traditions in which to follow.  We would advise you to consult your rabbi for any questions as to what he or she deems permissible.    

​Please know that we at Brighton Memorial Chapel, as well as any clergy in town, are always available to help answer questions that arise.  We hope you will find this list helpful and guide you in your own discussions and practices. 

Please know that we at Brighton Memorial Chapel, as well as any clergy in town, are always available to help answer questions that arise. We hope you will use our website as a means of reference. If you would like any printed information, we have pamphlets available at the funeral home.